Sean Ward has a very interesting (and readable) article titled “Functional Differentiation and the Crisis in Early Modern upper-class Conversation: The Second Madame, Interaction, and Isolation.” (2006. Seventeenth-Century French Studies).
Ward discusses the breakdown of polite conversation in late 17th-early 18th century France. The decline of polite conversation among the French aristocracy happened as functional differentiation was displacing stratification. Citing Luhmann, Ward refers to the code of polite conversation as pleasure/ennui. Conversation for the sake of conversation was an activity reserved for the nobility, and the rule was to be agreeable and clever. Controversial topics were excluded.
Ward mentions an interesting conflict between religious communication and polite conversation, relating to the the efforts of 18th century missionaries to convert Native Americans to Christianity. The Native Americans treated the Gospel as everyday communication, which one was not expected to take too seriously, rather than a special kind of communication–the communication related to religious salvation.
The Native Americans do not question the Truths of the Gospel, which would be acceptable and even welcome, for saying no to Christianity today brings with it the possibility of saying yes tomorrow. Instead, they engage in mere civility which achieves nothing but the avoidance of disputes. The interactional impasse results, I believe, from the different way the two groups categorise the encounter. According the Europeans’ interpretation, the Native Americans do not acknowledge that the encounter belongs to a specific functional sphere (namely, religion).
Rather, they behave as if the encounter is simply polite conversation.
Some eighty years earlier, Madame too draws attention to the incompatibility of religious communication and polite conversation. In 1705 her half-sister Amelise writes that she receives great pleasure from listening to a sermon. Madame is incredulous: ‘To listen for an hour to a buffoon, whom one may not contradict, holding forth from his pulpit may be good, but it is not pleasant.’ Madame grudgingly concedes that it is appropriate to apply to a sermon the moral code good/evil but inappropriate to apply, as her half-sister does, the code pleasure/ennui, which is specific to polite conversation.
The code of moral communication is good/evil or, as Luhmann says, respect/disrespect. Moral communication communicates whether certain persons are to be respected or disrespected. This, of course, is incompatible with the pleasure/ennui code.
According to Ward, the art of polite conversation declined among the nobility because of distrust, along with the fact that (due to democratization) the communications among the nobility became disconnected from real political power.
Due to functional differentiation, it is considered wrong to discuss business or politics at church or to discuss politics, religion, or intimate relations in casual, fleeting interactions–or with people one doesn’t really know or trust. It is safer to discuss the weather. Different kinds of communication are reserved for different social systems.
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